What do you make of this affair?

You ARE absolutely rite!!! WHY would you even want/consider hiring an ex unless there was "something/any other" reason for doing so! The past SHOULD BE put in the past & LEFT THERE. He's now married, WHY would he even think about hiring an ex for a position she has specifically told him she does NOT want. LET IT GO is what he should do. Put the past in the past & leave it there, it's no longer "the present" unless you're attempting to make it a part of your present! I sure KNOW I would want NO parts of "my past", wouldn't want to see him on a daily basis, that's for SURE!!! Is there any way possible you could bring this up so he'd at least be aware you KNOW about it & "call his bluff" on it?! He's sneaking around behind your back is what he's doing...the best to you, honey...:)