What would you do, daughter in hysterics when dropped off at playschool?

My 3 1/2 year old daughter is having a horrible time at her new playschool. She was fine the first 3 days, and then last week she cried every morning hysterically when I dropped her off, and then again today. When I approached the teacher today to tell her that my daughter has been telling me she is “scared of a boy named Tyler”, the teacher laughed at me and said “Honey (yes, she called me HONEY), she is scared of everyone,” in this really condescending tone. Then she was like “She doesn’t eat, you know.” And I’m thinking, no, I didn’t know, you people don’t tell me anything. They also rattled off some other things like she makes herself cry so hard she says she is going to throw up – basically without saying it, telling me I shouldn’t bring her anymore. I am furious at the way this teacher talked to me, and also annoyed that they never said anything to me until I ASKED THEM. Does any of this sound out of the ordinary to you?? Part of me wants to take her out of there and never take her back, and the other part of me (and also my husband) wants to keep taking her because eventually she’ll get over it. What would you do? Would you call and talk to the director of the school and tell her about the teacher? Or would you continue taking her because she'll eventually get used to it?